The days lately have been challenging. With 3 year old and 2 year old tantrums, testing the boundaries, fighting, flat out disobedience, and whining, it just wears this mama slap out. Oh so often there is a struggle in me whether I will respond with grace or with my flesh. Sadly, many times I have to ask forgiveness from my babes for my response. How thankful I am that they quickly forgive and don't hold grudges.
Motherhood is such a wonderful, rewarding calling, but it certainly makes your own sin and weaknesses flash boldly before your eyes. I am so thankful for the grace of God. I'm thankful for His Word that I can cling to in the moments of trouble. I am thankful that I can come boldly to Him and receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
I know these little years are going to be gone before I know it. I am endeavoring each day to savor the sweet times, not dwell on the difficulties, and choose joy even when I don't feel like it.
So...on to the happier moments of the weekend :)
On Friday I made Lily and Levi chore charts. They love them and have been so excited to put stickers in the boxes as they get finished.
Jacob's mom, Uncle Judah, and Aunt Elizabeth came over on Friday night to watch the kids so Jacob and I could go out on a date. Above is Lily and Levi's reactions when they found out Grammie was coming. :)
Funny story about the date night. It's literally been months since Jacob and I have been out together. Last Tuesday or Wednesday I asked Jacob's mom if she could watch the kids and I was going to try to surprise Jacob with the date. So, Wednesday night he talks to our babysitter and wants her to come Thursday night so he could surprise me with a date. On Thursday morning he kept talking about going out that night, and I kept putting him off since I'd planned for Friday night. We were supposed to have snow and ice Thursday afternoon, so I tried to use that as an excuse. I finally ended up having to tell him about what I'd planned. We both got a laugh at how we haven't had a date in months and then we each try to plan a surprise date the same week! :)
We used a coupon from my mom for supper at Ruby Tuesday and then we went to Starbuck's and talked about finances/goals for 2013 - better late than never. :) We had such a good time!
Saturday we played at home, bought groceries and took naps. I attended a friend's wedding while Jacob kept the kids home during naps.
We went and ate mexican with Jacob's extended family. It was a fun time! Lots of sweet memories were told about Nanny and Pawpaw. We miss them so much.
Silly kids begged me to take a picture of them sitting on the box of diapers. :)
Sunday we were finally able to be at church as a family again (the kids and I missed the last two weeks because of their coughs). I love this picture of Lily and my nephew, Ridley with Papaw reading to them. So sweet!
Happy Monday!

Girl, you hit the nail on the head with the first paragraphs of this post!!! I have been feeling the exact same way lately! I find myself reacting with anger too much when I am stressed out. I always aim to end the day on a good note - somehow!
ReplyDeleteLooks like a good weekend and glad you got a night out!
Levi looks as big as Lily! I bet you get asked all the time if they're twins!!
ReplyDeleteAnd, I think I need to create some type of chore chart for Paxton. He loves helping and he's definitely old enough to have some regular responsibility!
I love your updates -- and hearing your heart about life and parenting. God is using you with your children and I'm confident He is glorified as a result. I am glad that you two had a date this past week, and did laugh that you both tried to plan one :) Seems like you both knew what you needed.
ReplyDeleteI can't even imagine! My one 2 year old is enough for me! I ask for a lot of forgiveness over here, so I get ya! It's tough, but God and our kids are so gracious :) Funny about the date night!
ReplyDeleteGreat post. Love the pictures. Hopefully they'll stay excited about chores.
ReplyDeleteOh, how I understand what you're talking about in those first few paragraphs! It really is a battle with the flesh, and there are days I give into my frustrations and have to apologize over and over again. Motherhood is definitely sanctifying, isn't it?!
ReplyDeleteAnyways, I'm so glad you were able to enjoy a date with your hubby! And that's too cute that you were both planning one for the same week.:)
Thanks for the sweet comment on my blog, in response to my own struggles with tantrums and such - it has been hard around here lately, but it sounds so similar to you guys! I'll be praying for you!
ReplyDeleteOh, girl. I TOTALLY understand that! It. is. so. hard. I pinned this today ... http://pinterest.com/pin/270567890085010503/ ... and I'm thinking about implementing it so that they visually see when they are being kind to one another. I pray every single day for God to soften their hearts to discipline and instruction and help them to be kind to one another. Being a mama ... man ... it's tough stuff.
ReplyDeleteWhew totally understand. By far, from 2.5 to 3.5 years old has proven to be the most challenging for our boys. Asher just entered that and it has been so challenging and exhausting. As you said, so thankful for our children's quick forgiveness and the grace and patience of the Lord. The thing that stuck out to me this week was just how much I need to have Scripture memorized so that I can speak truth to myself even when I don't have time to sit down and read or study. Praying for you too! So thrilled that you were able to go out on a date! Always so refreshing!
ReplyDeleteYou are all so precious.
ReplyDeleteAnd I totally understand. We have days where my buttons are constantly pushed and pushed and pushed. It's extremely exhausting! We just all have to persevere together!
I was so happy to read the first few paragraphs of this post. I needed to hear someone else say it because it is exactly what I've been struggling with lately. My reactions have not been an example I want to set. I pray for patience, and struggle daily to remember to use patience when reacting. Thank you for showing me I'm not alone.
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