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Friday, October 23, 2009

Caffeinated Randomness: Accident


Last night was one of the scariest nights in my entire life. Jacob and I were over at my in-laws for a big surprise birthday party for my brother-in-law.

He was so surprised!
After supper all the guys (there were about 14 of them) decided to play 2-hand touch football in the front yard. They strategically set up three cars with the lights on so the yard would be lit up.

The game was going really well until my dear hubby decided to run a fastbreak (or whatever it's called) down the sideline, which happened to be the edge of the curb.
As I was watching, I knew something horrible was about to happen.
Jacob was running as fast as he could, with bare feet (because he had worn flipflops).
Someone touched him.
He lost his balance and tripped.
Crash!
He slammed extremely hard directly into the front of the pickup truck with it's lights on in the picture.
I thought he had hit his head. I thought he was dead. The full cup of water I was holding was thrown across the yard as I ran as fast as I could over to him.
Praise God he was alive! 
He had actually hit his side and back against the truck. His foot was torn and bleeding, he couldn't breathe very well, and he thought he had some broken ribs. After he got up and rested, he decided that at worst his ribs were bruised or cracked. We didn't check the truck, but with as hard as Jacob hit it, I'm afraid it might've had a dent or other damage.

Thankfully we made it through the night, getting a decent amount of sleep, and he is going to the doctor for x-rays this morning.

I honestly have no idea how people make it when they lose a spouse. Last night, I saw the accident, thought my husband was dead, and had the scene replay in my mind for hours. It was horrible. I can only praise the Lord for his goodness to me and our family.

Today as I care for my dear husband, I am reminded to always be thankful for him, no matter what. And to always remember to tell him that I love him because we never know what can happen.

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Happy Friday! Go hug your family and make sure they know how much you love them!

18 comments:

  1. Ok, I was crying at the end. It's so important to always let our loved ones know that we love them. We never know when the "last time" will be. I hope that doesn't sound morbid. Just real.

    Love you sis!

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  2. It's so true! I'm so glad that he's okay. You do never know when you or a loved one will be called home.

    We never expected that the Christmas of 2002 would be the last time the Barnes siblings would be completely together on this side of glory. It was only 5 short weeks later that Mark lost his life in a car accident.

    Praise God for His protection last night!

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  3. So glad your hubby is okay. He will probably be sore for awhile but you still have him!! Thank the Lord.

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  4. I'm so glad he's okay!!! Hopefully nothing is broken too!

    I had something similar happen a few weeks ago..I had just found out I was pregnant (I partially blame my emotions on this) and my husband told me he would be late coming home that evening...well it got to be 8 and I called and he didn't answer (he is the man that has his phone on him ALL THE TIME!) I called again and again and texted and called again and started crying just knowing he had been killed in a car crash or had fallen off of a ladder! So I headed to church and was so relieved when I got there and saw his truck! I walked in and gave him a hug and asked about his phone...he was streaming music in the room he was working on and was no where near it! I was just so thankful he was okay because those feelings I experienced were so real!

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  5. Wow.... Kelly, I'm praising God with you that your husband is okay.

    Thanks for the reminder today to love at all times -- we just never know. But, we find comfort in the fact that God does.

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  6. oh. my. goodness! My heart was just pounding away as I read this! I am so thankful that your husband is okay, though a little banged up. I can't imagine the pain of losing a spouse. John got the flu last year and at one point his temp was over 104. I was up all night bathing his head with cold washclothes ... I couldn't sleep and I was panicking about what to do! Thankfully his fever broke the next day - but it was so scary!!!!

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  7. So sorry that you had to go through that BUT I am glad that he is okay and that he is with you today. Those moments are scary and you seriously have so much go through your mind. You're right, we should always be thankful of our spouses (well, all those in our life) - but our spouses are a part of us and we should cherish them 24/7 - even when it's not easy to do!

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  8. SO glad all is well! I went through a situation similar to this when we were in a roll-over accident on the freeway. As we were rolling I just knew I was going to die, but I instantly had peace about that. But it occured to me that I actually wasn't dying but there was no way we could both survive an accident like this so I must be losing my husband while he was sitting next to me! Yeah-NO peace about that one!!! Long story and the whole thing is on my blog, but WOW did God protect us! I was sent to the hospital for getting my head banged up but the only mark on my husband was a good scratch on his arm he got from pulling me out of the car!
    But their is nothing scarier than thinking you have lost your husband. Crazy.
    I am so glad your husband (and mine) are still with us!!! They serve as very good reminders to ALWAYS love them and send them to work with a kiss! :)
    Thanks for sharing!

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  9. Oh. That makes me sad. I can't even think of that possibility. It makes me want to go and hug my husband at work! I am sure they would love that.

    My prayers for you and hubby. Thank you for making me love mine more!

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  10. Oh dear. I am so glad he is okay...and that he heals quickly...and that your heart rate returns to normal in a week or so :) I am praying for both of you.

    And thank you for the beautiful reminder to love on those we love.

    Blessings.

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  11. Bless your heart, and his too! Give him lots of hugs and kisses!
    Chocolate doesn't hurt, either!

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  12. Praise God he is alive! I hope everything is mendable and quickly at that!

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  13. OMGoodness! Praid God he is okay!! And you are so right, you never know what each day holds!
    ((hugs & blessings))

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  14. Kelly -
    Your post brought tears to my eyes. I am glad you are counting your blessings and not focusing on the trials.
    Peace be yours, my friend.
    - Brooke

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  15. I'm glad he's going to be okay!

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  16. That would terrify me! I am glad he wasn't hurt too bad.

    I just found you blog and love it!!

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